Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship

This article is written by a nairalander for all those whom have had to undergo the pain of a break up or perhaps divorce AND those whose current serious relationship is dwindling at the edge of a cliff .

Probably, you're now casting rocks at him or her but I tell you, if you look keenly, you are responsible in a way.

Almost every one is in a relationship: Platonic, Love or Marriage. Break up or Divorce as it were is an ANTI-RELATIONSHIP virus. It's always sticking its ugly nose at both of you- for separation. The ball, however is in your court. smileycool

How Do I Prevent Break Up Situations In My Relationship?

1. Be The Bigger Person.Stop being irresponsible. There is a misunderstanding? Be the first to say, I'm sorry. It won't hurt a fly.
Do you know that by doing so he or she respects you more? Why? You just did what she's been too proud to do. I practised this once on a girl and the result was amazing and immediate. Try it today. Don't try to defend your actions anymore. smiley

2. If He Doesn't Call You, Call Him.Two wrongs can't make a right.
Folks are always expecting the other to call first. If she doesn't call, so you won't? I'm not referring to just casual and sexual relationship. In a serious relationship, who calls most shows who love most. Call him, you're not breaking "protocols", hun. If you love him, show it. If he's a jerk or a kid, he'll freak out and run.

3. If All Of A Sudden He Stops Calling, Don't Push It. Cut Him Some SlackSometimes, she has got her wedding all planned out in her mind with him in it of course. She loves him dearly and that causes her to expect soooo much. He stops calling and caring as before, she starts suspecting. She aggravates over the phone. She yells at him, "Why are you not picking my calls?". Probably, it's work stress and family stuff. Give him a little space, meanwhile text him occasionally. Patience is the word. Protect your Reputation, Morals, Dignity and Chastity cool This is the period where some impatient girls deem it necessary to "trap" him through sex or pregnancy. How foolish! SMH!

4. Don't Plan To RetaliateIf she bursts your balloon by not laughing at your jokes, don't try to retaliate. It is uncalled for. If she gives the attitude by not replying your question, don't retaliate. It's hard? That's the way to keep the relationship strong and going. smiley

5. Forgive Ahead.Decision not to sleep with grudges in your heart even while you're single is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.

Nothing separates like an unforgiving attitude. You just refuse to forgive him/ her. Perfect You! See where it has got you?

6. Being Hasty To ConcludeYou hear something said against him and the next thing you're calling and yelling. How immature! How would you feel if later you discover it wasn't him. You feel like a… child.

7. Always Speak Up!
Not speaking may lead to regrets tomorrow. Misinformation might have led to your breaking up… because you didn't speak!

This is where quiet and dull girls are not good enough. You should know when to speak and when to be still joor!

You speak with Discretion, Respect and Maturity.

Discretion: Use wise words.

Respect: Use magic words. wink

Maturity: Know when to say what.

ASSIGNMENT: If you love him or her, Pick up the phone and call her or him. Break the damn silence! Do something about the way you disregard him or her, even in the public.

Go, Go make it work! ( Voice of Janet Jackson in Why Did I Get Married?) wink

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